This is what she posted on the site right over everyone’s Christmas post. Our post for Christmas didn’t even make it to Christmas Eve or Christmas day with her around.  She posted this over our Christmas post, so what I did was...I simply moved it to the Dream Category. First I’ll show you her original post, and then I’ll show you what she posted next. Wow, I saw red when I saw the second part she posted on the site...The first one was cukoo enough, lol. It's very sad how miserable people are during the holidays.

After I moved her post to the Dream Category, this is what she posted on the site. It was in awful red letters juat as you see it below and titled,,,I’m Mad,,,I’m Very Very Mad...(The jerk-o) lol

So, I sent her the following e-mail and titled it "Not Deleted, meaning that her original post was not deleted, only moved to another section":

Cougarsshadow,

I just wanted you to know that your post was not deleted. I would never do that. If you had looked a little bit further down, it was simply moved to the Dreams Section. I thought perhaps if it was located in that category, than maybe someone would be willing to interpret your dream for you and it would not be lost in the shuffle of a General Discussion.

You have no idea how my heart breaks for you to have so much going on in your life. I'm here if you ever need a friend, and I will pray for you too.

Just please in the future, if you ever have an issue, do not post it in huge red letters on the site. Just come to me directly. It was not very pleasant to wake on Christmas Eve morning to find such a mean spirited e-mail posted on the site, and right over the holiday posting for all. This should be a time of joy for everyone, not a time of battles and woes. I wish nothing but healing for you and your family and many blessings as well. If you would like, I will certainly post my wishes for your health and for your family and your family pet in the wishing well.

Happy Holidays to you and yours...

Sky

--------------------------------------------------------

This is what she sends back in an e-mail, and on Christmas Day too. Omg, it’s so sad how miserable people must truly be to be concerned with such crapola on Christmas and have nothing else to do. I just can’t believe it.

Now, this is what I sent back to her and I guess it ended it because she has not responded. I don’t care. She has some nerve to come on to the site, any site, and start yelling at somebody in big red letters. It’d odd, I sort of feel sorry for her because she sounds a bit crazy, almost completely iliterate, and apparently she doesn’t have a happy home life. I only sent the following because it’s Christmas and I’m sure she probably doesn’t feel wanted anywhere based upon what she said in her post. I know that she doesn’t deserve my kindness, but I just feel so sorry for people when they are so unhappy. I’m not going to include her in the future group e-mails for chats.

Hi Cougar,

Merry Christmas hon. I think that there was just a misunderstanding. I probably should have done a post immediately in the General Discussion Section stating that I had moved your post to the Dream Section or at least sent you an e-mail to let you know. I truly didn't think of it until much later on. You did not do anything wrong at all, and you did not post in the wrong place. I am very liberal on the site in as far as where people are comfortable posting. I was honestly just thinking about you and that maybe someone could help out and give you a further interpretation of the dream. I know that Polly can be very good at that. I am a very kind person and am always giving of myself to others without asking for anything in return and I never ever do anything intentional to hurt anyone's feelings, so it was just a little surprising of how angry you became when you saw that it wasn't there where you had posted it and didn't send an e-mail and ask about it before blasting away, lol. You certainly did not ruin my Christmas. I had a very beautiful one and I hope that you did as well. I wish that you would reconsider your position about not coming back. I value your membership and your willingness to contribute. Your piece and anything that anyone is willing to contribute in as far as posting, is always worthwhile. I do the best I can to make everyone feel welcome and comfortable, and I certainly did not move the post because of any other reason except for someone being able to further assist you. I wish you health & happiness in the New Year ahead. I am very saddened that you have had to go through so much with the breast cancer. I have already prayed for you my friend. I will accept whatever your decision is, but I would be happy if you felt that you would like to remain as member of the group.

Best Regards,

Sky


Polly, Waya went and looked on her Facebook site and this is what she said to me:

Delete her membership. I say this because I checked out her facebook and at the bottom of her info page is a blog spot for cougarshadow, I went to it and it is nothing but negitivity. She doesn't want to be part of the group, she wants everyone to feel sorry for her and see through her view only. Get rid of her!


Polls, I just feel sort of odd asking her to reconsider and then deleting her, however, she didn't respond to my last e-mail.

I would really really appreciate your wise opinion and expert advise in handling these matters, since you have been doing this for so many years.  I'm sorry this was so long, but you are management, lolol... I will do whatever you feel is appropriate. We or you can just delete this when we are done discussing it. We don't need negativity floating around on the site. Thanks hon.

Luv & Light,
Sky



UPDATE

Polly,

Since I wrote this to you, I found out that Cougarsshadow removed herself from the facebook page, so I figured I would just go ahead and remove her from here.  Problem solved I guess, lol.